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We are at war with the past because our anger is always towards something that has already happened & looking at it we react emotionally which means we are trying to change it, which is impossibleplace a year ago, a month ago or even a second ago or across time in your past life cannot be changed. Somewhere & sometime in the past, we have picked up & absorbed the belief that the world & its circumstances should shape up exactly as we want.
When our internal desire of a certain type of circumstances is not fulfilled, or in other words something against this belief happens, our instant reaction is one of the various forms of anger & we tend to try & change the incident that has happened in a far-off past or a past that has just gone by. We keep replaying a revised incident, with words & actions that we would have liked & that suit our convenience & we also keep nullifying the actual incident or remain in a un-acceptance mode towards it. This is like fighting a war with the incident. We tend to do this inside our minds, repeatedly, even realizing somewhere deep within, that it is impossible.
We are at war with the past because our anger is always towards something that has already happened & looking at it we react emotionally which means we are trying to change it, which is impossibleplace a year ago, a month ago or even a second ago or across time in your past life cannot be changed. Somewhere & sometime in the past, we have picked up & absorbed the belief that the world & its circumstances should shape up exactly as we want.
When our internal desire of a certain type of circumstances is not fulfilled, or in other words something against this belief happens, our instant reaction is one of the various forms of anger & we tend to try & change the incident that has happened in a far-off past or a past that has just gone by. We keep replaying a revised incident, with words & actions that we would have liked & that suit our convenience & we also keep nullifying the actual incident or remain in a un-acceptance mode towards it. This is like fighting a war with the incident. We tend to do this inside our minds, repeatedly, even realizing somewhere deep within, that it is impossible.