Friday, April 24, 2020

Meaningful positive friendships Generally classmates, acquaintances, colleagues form the broader friend circle. In childhood classmates who sit next to you in class or ones whom you play with/spend most time with, In adulthood same age group with whom we mostly hang out with and now Virtual friends on social platforms like facebook (the most dangerous & damaging) define our social behavior. We come across people/persons Ones who are concerned just about themselves Ones who always have an excuse when you need them in emergency Ones whose frequency of interactions with you varies depending upon the state of affairs you are in i.e having a good life or otherwise. Ones who cheat & back stab for their own advantage. Ones who reveal your secrets, shared in confidence, in public. One is required to revisit and revise the definition of a friend. Remove the clutter from your life and retain only true well wishers. It is advisable to expect only what you yourself are ready and willing to do, do not take them for granted. Stick by them more through their bad times than in their happy moments. Befriend yourself, live in your own happy little universe with high degree of self esteem thus you will never have to chase friends.


Meaningful positive friendships Generally classmates, acquaintances, colleagues form the broader friend circle. In childhood classmates who sit next to you in class or ones whom you play with/spend most time with, In adulthood same age group with whom we mostly hang out with and now Virtual friends on social platforms like facebook (the most dangerous & damaging) define our social behavior. We come across people/persons Ones who are concerned just about themselves Ones who always have an excuse when you need them in emergency Ones whose frequency of interactions with you varies depending upon the state of affairs you are in i.e having a good life or otherwise. Ones who cheat & back stab for their own advantage. Ones who reveal your secrets, shared in confidence, in public. One is required to revisit and revise the definition of a friend. Remove the clutter from your life and retain only true well wishers. It is advisable to expect only what you yourself are ready and willing to do, do not take them for granted. Stick by them more through their bad times than in their happy moments. Befriend yourself, live in your own happy little universe with high degree of self esteem thus you will never have to chase friends.



Interactions with others he/she of whatever age impacts ones thought process and action to different degrees and makes one question and rethink about ones own behavior. Helplessness is a source of endless sufferings. Optimism/Hope as against helplessness improves the quality of life one leads. Childhood, adolescence and education shapes ones future. Psychology is the science of addressing ones troubles/ mental illness and helps one to manage his/her life. It guides one to self discovery to live a purposeful life with passion. Break the social barriers, inhibition and consult psychologist as and when you start feeling helplessness. Seeking help contact m-9872880634


Saturday, April 4, 2020

Past life regression session.


Past life regression session.

Client came and said Dr Vandana ! why am I so protective of my brother? Why he has so many problems in his life? I wish to know the answers.

Session....

I am a girl. It is Europe. I am in front of a big house in a tonga. I am entering the house. I came after attending funeral of my friend’s father. My family is asking how it went.

It is breakfast time. My father is telling me it is time to get married. In the evening I am waiting for my friend. He came but looks upset. His father died. I told him my father wants me to get married now. He looks thoughtful. After sometime it is our marriage ceremony. I am very happy. We are going for honeymoon.

Few years passed. We have a daughter named Isabel. She is four years old. She is wounded. and we are going to medicine man. It is 17th century England. On the way there is an old lady asking for and trying to snatch money. She has a knife in her hand. She hit my daughter with the knife and ran away. We could not find her. We came back and cremated our daughter. Our home is very quiet now. 

After few years I have a son. I am very protective of him. When he grew up he went to some big place to study.  We both are going on tonga to pick him up. We are taking him home. We are very happy. My son is 17 year old. Suddenly the horse got hit with something and we all fell down. My son and husband got head injuries and are unconscious. I am trying to get up. Suddenly I saw the same old lady again and she is laughing now. I asked her why did she do this again to us. She said I am taking revenge from your late father in law. I will finish his whole family. She hit me with knife. She is checking to make sure my husband and son died. She ran away. My last thought was life is unpredictable. The old woman is my cousin and son is my brother in my present life. In light the masters said you have to let go your linkage to brother. He has to make his own path. His problems are linked to his traumatic childhood in present life. You gift him good books and do not take extra tension for him. He has to learn to help father.  You only guide him and do not force anything. The masters are blessing me and my father.